If she’s dating another guy, but she still wants to message you – I would respond, but only with wacky stuff to amuse yourself.
I wouldn’t be giving her any specifics about what you’re doing or what you’ve been up to. (No logic)
Now, if she actually wants to see you, then you say…
Sounds fun, but it wouldn’t be fair to Bruce if we hang out.
I’m way too attractive and we want to give Bruce a fair shot at winning your heart. I mean come on, give the poor guy a chance.
What this does is turn the other guy into someone who’s blocking her from doing and seeing who she likes. It also makes him look unattractive.
Of course you’re going to funny and playful with this theme (never serious). And at first she may not even buy into your “I’m the prize” humor.
Ive seen this come up after a breakup where the girl just started dating someone new but still wants to message and see her ex. But the fastest way to get her back isn’t by going to see her, it’s by telling her it wouldn’t be fair to the new guy,
The bottom line is, you don’t want her to be playing two turkeys at the same time.
Once she drops Bruce (the other guy) only then can you go on a date with her.
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