Sure, one day it may help you to figure out what happened. To come to terms with what went down so you can move on. For your mental health.
But not while the relationship is still going on.
There’s no need for long talks. Or analyzing.
If she says she needs space, you’ll fell like you want to discuss this for hours and figure it all out with her. Instead you just say, cool and disappear for a while.
If it 100% ends, only then do you have that long talk and try to piece together what happened.
As for now, the game is still on. You still have a chance.
And “talking” about an emotional thing like a relationship logically, will only ruin that chance.
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