Sometimes a woman will try and hide her low interest in you by saying things like – “I’m afraid of being hurt” or “sometimes I put up a wall to protect myself”.
Believe me, she’s in no danger of being hurt.
And the only one that’s going to hurt here is YOU.
If she says she’s afraid of being hurt, it means that a guy has hurt her in the past.
Translation: she liked a guy who just wasn’t into her (and rejected her)
And to that I say, big deal.
We’ve all had to deal with someone who didn’t like us back. And as a guy, you’ve probably had to deal with the pain of being rejected more times than you can count.
However, you still would never tell a woman you like that you can’t “get together” because you’re scared of being hurt.
So…
When she tries to sell you on that she canceled your date because she’s just scared of being hurt, don’t buy into it. She isn’t really saying that to you anyway. She’s saying that to the negative challenge from her past who rejected her.
Plus, why should you have to pay for his sins?
You actually like this girl and she knows it.
Bottom line, if you buy into her excuse, you are making a huge mistake. You are rationalizing her low interest in you.
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