If most guys were a TV show, they would be streaming on all of the major platforms.
Downloadable on all the popular devices.
Anytime she wanted to watch, you’d be available. 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.
Just punch up social media and there he is again. I can find out everything I need to know about him.
Now, I’ll admit, your show is pretty good. It makes her laugh and there’s some great dialogue. (and if your show isn’t good – for example it’s too negative or serious – you need to fix that first)
The problem is you’re on TV way too much.
Instead, you want her to have to buy a ticket to come see your show.
You want her motivated to come out and see your show in person.
(Your show isn’t available VIRTUALLY over text or social media. If you want it, you have to come see it LIVE)
So in the meantime, what can you give her until she’s so motivated to come see your show that she buys a ticket (wants a date)
Well, you ONLY give her PREVIEWS.
You don’t give her NOTHING.
You give her a PREVIEW.
That means no more 30 minute “deep” conversations or two hour text exchanges.
A “preview” is a quick little reminder of how much fun you are and how much you make her laugh.
That means one funny text message and stop. Or a quick 2 minute fun conversation where you get out of there first.
Think of it like a movie trailer – no more than 2 minutes!
Or like a commercial (a little reminder of what she could be getting if she buys in)
Remember, you’ve got a pretty good show – the problem is it’s on all the time and she can watch whenever she wants.
Put a higher price tag on your show and she’ll be more motivated to come out and see it in person!
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